The whole world believes “Virginity” has nothing to do with marriage.

Really?

So, please, explain to me why Tamar was so distraught?!

“…So she said to him, No, indeed! This evil of sending me away is worse than the other than you did to me…“

 ….. Now she had on a robe of many colors, for the King’s Virgin daughters wore such apparel …….

 ….. Then Tamar put ashes on her head, and tore her robe of many colors that was on her, and laid her hand on her head and went away crying bitterly ….

….. So Tamar remained desolate in her brother Absalom’s house …...”

If Virginity is not important, why was Tamar so distraught? And why then did she remain desolate in her brother’s house?

Why did not someone simply tell her that she can be forgiven of this “One Flesh Union” and simply take a man in marriage?

This sad situation in the Scriptures is a perfect example of how “One Flesh” works.

The Scriptures are silent, but after Tamar’s brother takes his revenge and kills Amnon, the “One Flesh” union is Severed. Gone. Kaput. Over. Tamar would now be FREE from this union and could take a man in “cultural marriage”. See — 1 Corinthians 7:39/ Romans 7:2-3.

Have some Courage! Explain to me why Tamar was so distraught, tearing her robe of Virginity and remaining desolate in her brother’s house.

Tamar says, “…. This evil** of sending me away is worse than the other than you did to me….” —

We know what “the other that you did to me” is — Non-consensual Sexual Intercourse i.e., Rape. But what is “this evil”**? Why is “sending me away” WORSE than Rape?

This “Evil” is WORSE than Rape. What could be worse than Rape???

For he who has ears, let him hear.